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Comment on Does moving out help a troubled relationship? by Dee

Dee — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 09:03:55 +0000

Did you try talking to him? (Easier said than done, I know.) It sounds to me that he is distancing him self from you. If he’s not going to open up and talk to you then I would think that moving out would be the best thing for you. You deserve better than that. I’m living with someone (4yrs) and can relate to how you feel. I am also moving out. Don’t be a fool like me and blame yourself for it not working out. Good luck, hope everything works out for the best.

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Counsellors & Psychologists Sutherland — Thu, 24 Jun 2010 23:29:06 +0000

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Comment on Does moving out help a troubled relationship? by A.Z.

A.Z. — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 03:24:04 +0000

You need to move out. He’s not treating you properly, and it looks like he doesn’t even care if he does. What is going on is that he is taking you for granted — it will only go downhill from here if you don’t establish boundaries of what is acceptable in terms of how you will allow yourself to be treated. I don’t know how old he is, but this sounds like someone in their 20s — which usually means they are not ready for prime time.

Two years is often a threshold in relationships — the stay or go time. You need to go; and if he wants to EARN your trust and respect, then let him start working, because he’s got a lot to make up for. If not, consider what you have learned from this relationship and take that wisdom with you so you can have a better NEW relationship. Give it about six months to appear …